the Shira Rose

A NYC Body Positive Fashion Blog

5 Ways To Wear A Statement Necklace

The statement necklace. It can make a simple outfit pop! It’s such an easy way to make your outfit look cohesive and thought out when really, all you’re doing is throwing on a necklace. A white tee and denim or a solid blouse with a pencil skirt or slacks are great times to put on a statement piece. Your outfit doesn’t have to be simple though; you can still wear it when wearing bright bold colors and interesting textures like I did here. Or of course with an LBD like I did here. And you really don’t have to spend a lot of money. All these pieces were really affordable, the cheapest being about $15 and the most expensive being $79.
This pink and rose gold beauty is by Jenn from EllandEmm.

This is me trying to be attractive. Justttttt kidding, I’m just bored of half smiling in all the necklace photos and trying to entertain Chani as she snaps picture after picture. Cool necklace, huh? This piece is from Banana Republic and while I don’t see it online at the moment, this one is also pretty.

Another lovely expression from yours truly. On a random note, has anyone noticed that I now sign off as “Your Sequin Admirer” ? At a big Friday night dinner at my house last week, one of our guests came up with that one. 🙂 Oh and this green beauty is from Anthropologie, on sale.
Recently got this fun coral and turquoise necklace (perfect color combo!) from Bauble Bar’s friend and family sale. Check out their big selection of affordable statement necklaces here.
Meet the new love of my life. Obsesseddddd with this beauty from The Yellow Door. And it was well priced too! You might be seeing this one a lot in the future. 🙂
This sweet necklace is from Dream Big Jewelry by Dasi. She seriously has the most affordable pieces.
Show me your statement necklaces! Or the ones you plan to get after reading this post. 🙂
*All of these photos are taken by Chani Shmookler-Deutsch. I wish I could pack her in my suitcase and take her with me to Florida in a couple weeks!

Flirty Florals

If I could take the entire Madewell store home with me, I would. Their prints, colors, and styles are right up my alley. I’ve never regretted a purchase from them. And NO, unfortunately this is not a sponsored post. 😉 Maybe one day….then I’ll know I made it! I fell in love with this floral print at Madewell and a few weeks ago it was on sale with additional 30% off so I grabbed it!

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Photos by Chani Shmookler Deutsch
Dress: Madewell on sale (loving this floral dress by Ted Baker, more subtle florals here, party florals here, and beautiful coral lace floral here) Cardigan: Uniqlo (similar here) ShoesJ.Crew Factory NecklaceKate Spade WatchMichael Kors

More florals by fabulous bloggers here.

3 Ways To Dress Up The LBD (Little Black Dress)

I’m totally down for a pretty, black dress; especially when there is lace on it! But black dresses can easily fade into the background so sometimes it can be fun to add some pop to them. Plus, having such a simple backdrop makes it easy to add fun accessories and if you struggle with putting outfits together, an LBD is the perfect place to start. Please know that your clutch and shoes do NOT have to match and in fact it can be too “matchy matchy.” My clutch was more of a sage green color but it photographed differently. If you don’t love color, you can do a metallic or textured clutch to make your look more interesting. Dress up your LBD in a way that’s fun for you!

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Photos by Chani Shmookler Deutsch
Dress: Loft Shoes: Shoemint Clutch: pretty mint one from Asos and Francesca’s (and I’m so crushing on this one from Gigi NY) Necklace: Borrowed, from The Yellow Door (fun statement necklaces from JeweliqBaubleBar, and BaubleBar)

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FAQ About Laser Hair Removal

Before I talk about my experience with laser hair removal, I just want to make it clear that it’s just that; it’s my personal experience. Also for the sake of full disclosure, I was given free underarm laser hair removal at Deify Laser + Beauty Lounge. However, I don’t review products or services without being honest to my readers, and I’d never recommend something I didn’t 100% believe in. With that said…..here’s the scoop.

I’ve wanted to do laser hair removal for a while now but I was put off by horror stories of people being severely burned, their skin changing color, horrible pain, or that it just didn’t work. When a close friend of mine did laser hair removal with great results, I decided to do my own research. Actually, first I decided to buy a groupon to a laser hair removal place nearby on a whim. I’m a WIMP when it comes to pain. I’m not kidding-I cannot tolerate pain very well but it was painless and quick! I was ecstatic but….uh, there were no results. So that’s when I decided to do some research and I discovered that you need to find out what machines are being used. The machines that are most effective are Candela and Yag. I then started to look into places in the city (NYC and Brooklyn) that used those machines. That’s when I discovered Deify Laser. I realized that if you’re dealing with professional and experienced technicians with top of the line equipment,  you shouldn’t have a horror story. And the technicians at Deify are amazing; well at least the one I’ve been using-Lisa!

Adorable stress balls in case you need something to squeeze.

Does laser hair removal hurt?
Yes. I’m not going to lie and say it’s pain-free but it’s tolerable pain. And remember, I don’t do pain; I cried for an hour after doing electrolysis once but this was honestly…tolerable. Depending on the body part, the pain is different. I was told the underarm would be more painful and it really wasn’t. It felt like quick snaps of a rubber band against my skin but I didn’t even flinch.

What should you expect from laser hair removal?
So when I did my underarms a few weeks ago, I was super disappointed a few days later when I seemed just as….hairy. But then I started noticing that it was falling out and 2 weeks later, I saw about a 50-60% reduction after just one time! No, I am not kidding! It took about 3 or 4 times before I noticed the hair above my lip decrease and that’s because for some reason, facial hair is more stubborn. It could be a hormone thing, but I’m not an expert. The average person needs about 6-8 treatments per area in total but results vary from person to person.

Does laser hair removal work for everyone?
The best results happen for people with dark, course hair on light skin, although Deify has a machine that works for dark skin too! It’s more painful though because the setting has to be higher, I’m not going to lie. I needed to use it in one area where my skin is darker and that pain was intense. If you have blonde hair, laser isn’t really an option for you.

I don’t think I could go to another place after going to Deify. The neighborhood is great, the place is clean and hip, and the technicians and machines are top notch. If you have any more questions about laser hair removal that I didn’t answer, please feel free to ask me. I’ll do a follow up post in about 6 months to share the long term results. You can check out Deify on facebook here, their website here, and to check out reviews, check Yelp here.

Feeling Blue (The Good Kind!)

Yay for finally getting my own domain (http://AsequinLoveAffair.com)! Hope you like my new name and beautiful blog design thanks to the beautiful and talented Kelly Stahley. And I realllyyyy hope you follow me via bloglovin’ or google friend connect!

I went to the Rebecca Minkoff sample sale last week and got this beautiful bag. Also, my shoes are from J.Crew kids and I know I’ve mentioned it before but if you’re under a size 7.5 shoe, you can wear kid shoes. I’ve gotten shoes in the kid’s department from Zara, Gap, J.Crew, and Toms. Less money and if you’re a flat wearer like me, there are a ton of great options!

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Photos by Chani Shmookler Deutsch
Outfit Inspiration from What I Wore
Top: J.Crew Factory (similar here and here) Skirt: Target Shoes: J.Crew kids Bag: Rebecca Minkoff (love this one and this one) Watch: Michael Kors Necklace: Kate Spade Bracelets: Kate Spade and Stella & Dot via Cathy Balanoff Ring: Molly’s