the Shira Rose


Chanukah Gift Guide Under $50

Chanukah is less than a month away so here is my fun and feminine Chanukah gift guide under $50. Please stay safe. I know it’s hard that things have to be a bit different this year but we need to take care of each other. How will you be celebrating this year?

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Cozy Gift Guide For Holiday Season

I don’t know about you, but this holiday season I’m all about the cozy vibes. The pandemic means that a lot of us are still spending a lot more time at home these days. I’ve accumulated quite the tie-dye loungewear collection and I know I’m not alone in that haha! So when it came to creating gift guides, I wanted to create the ultimate cozy gift guide because I know these are things that will be put to good use this year more than ever.

This cozy gift guide includes cute loungewear, weighted blankets, candles, warm slippers, and beanies. Some of these things have been key to my survival during the pandemic, like my weighted blanket for example. I hope you find this helpful!

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Top 10 Plus Size Clothing Stores

I’ve shared my feelings on the state of plus size fashion here. This post is not going to be an extensive list of every plus-size store available. It’s just going to be an updated list of some of my favorite plus size clothing brands right now. These are stores that sell clothes I genuinely like. If you’re looking for sustainable options, this likely won’t be it. Plus size options are dismal and dehumanizing as it is; and when we can do better than make up more than 3% of the fashion industry, perhaps I can give some more sustainable options. top plus size clothing (more…)

Confronting My Changed Body And The State Of Plus Size Fashion

I’ve been talking about writing an updated post on my favorite plus size brands for a few months now and have pushed it off over and over again. Confronting my body changes has been hard and confronting my current clothing options has been absolute shit. I’m the largest I’ve been in over a decade as I’ve worked to eliminate every single food rule and eating disorder behavior that has controlled my life for over two decades. I didn’t really have to confront my body changes for most of quarantine as I wore pj’s and sweats exclusively. But eventually, I knew I needed to go through my closet and was met with racks and racks of clothes that were too small.

But Shira, plus size clothing options are so great now! There has been so much improvement since you were a fat teen! You’ll be able to find clothes that work for your recovered body with ease! Um…. no.

I want to preface what I’m about to say with the disclaimer that my small fat body has a ton of privilege. I’m on the smaller end of plus size and can sometimes wear the biggest sizes in straight size stores, depending on how the clothes run. Once you get past a size 24 or 26, your options are a joke.

With all that being said, there are only a handful of plus-size brands that truly feel like “me.” And then there’s the fact that I’m really short and it appears that brands believe that you can only be thin and short as petite sizing is almost always available in small sizes only. So yes, I have way more options than someone in a mid or super fat body, and confronting my changed body and the dismal clothing options it brings has been really painful.

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3 Best Products For The Hell That Is Chub Rub

I will never forget this shoot I did with Kelly about 3 or 4 summers ago. We walked for miles as we usually do during our photoshoots but I hadn’t thought to bring an anti-chafing product and…. I can’t even begin to describe the pain I felt between my thighs. If you’ve experienced chub rub, you know the firey, unspeakable pain I’m talking about. Well, let’s just say that I haven’t made that mistake since, and today I’m sharing the best chub rub products I’ve found for surviving summer (and any time of year).
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